Let’s fall in love

Do you find yourself lucky enough to be loved by someone..? Yeah we all are…

You will find different kinds of love all around the corner of the world. Unwavering love that certainly comes from your parents. The love you get from your siblings and other family members. The most comfortable and crazy love from friends. The respectful love from your colleagues and unknowns though. The most beautiful and unconditional love from your partner.

There isn’t any perfect definition for love. Generations have passed by, each individual across the planet have it’s own definition and explanation of love. Each has their own experience of love. Some have emotional touch, while some are virtual. Some having occult love, while some having mystical love.

Each has a special relationship with the love they possess. But what do you call the person who is in love with the self. I would call it a perfect love. The love with self, it’s not describable. It’s the feeling one can possess that no one can give.

When you fall in love with yourself, you try to truly recognize yourself very much than anyone else on the planet. You try to interact with yourself, and try doing things you love. You try possessing things you want or you need. There is no one in between you and yourself who would obstruct from anything. So you won’t settle for anything less than you deserve or you want. You do things at you own pace and at your own will. And then you start enjoying your solitude with the self. You figure out the ambitions and goal you want to achieve, and that motivates you to work towards it. Then there is nothing like alone, that takes the place in your life. You don’t mind spending time with yourself going to public places, or going for a movie alone, or feasting yourself in your favourite restaurant. You choose your time carefully for the people you really want to spend time with, because you are always occupied with yourself.

This doesn’t mean you should stop socializing or be completely alone. This means that you should recognize yourself, take very much care of yourself. Never to suppress the need of the self. It’s a self love. You love what you do. You make mistakes, be crazy with yourself, scold yourself, and then forgive yourself too.

When you are in love with the self, you become more and more confident. The confident you look, the more and more people around you would love you and respect you for what you are.

So loving self is like respecting what you have or what you are gifted with. It may be the talent, strength, weakness, physique, views, attitude, etc. So better not compare the self to others, and feel low. Always be modest about complimenting yourself. Be brave enough to fight for yourself and take your stand, in any situation no matter what. Try to focus on your achievements, and the path towards your goal. Work hard, achieve it. Try removing all the toxic thoughts from your mind, and be clear about your views and ideas.

Have trust on yourself, love and respect yourself. And there will be people around who would build a trust of love and respect on you for your being.

Settle for no less, and be yourself. Let’s fall in love with the most important person in the world, who would always be with you and stand by you. “SELF”